Sometimes a white lie can salvage so much more than the truth ever will..

I wanna be in melb with the cool weather! Now that i’m back in brisbane i think it can be compared with sg weather. So freain hot and humid! URGH!

Tnx to those ppl who met up and took me ard when i was in melb! Whoever has the pics can you pls give them to me! i dun have a single pic except for the tabasco sauce in the crown restaurant on my hp!

ok i need to go take a dump (or shivers.. according to some auntie who was scolding adele for saying shit on the ski slope)

I’m extremely agitated and pissed off right now.. Took your friend for granted recently? Treated your friend like shit recently? Showed your friend attitude and expect them to accept it recently?

I’m sure most people out there have buckets of aquaintances, handful of friends and countable close friends. Your close friends and you definitely have this unspoken rule that you can treat them anyway you like and taking them for granted to a certain extent without them getting angry. Or so at least that’s what i think. But what happens if your close friend (i’ll use CF here) starts to cross the line and goes overboard? What do you do then?

Even for close friends i’m sure you do treat them nicely, with the occasional bitching and teasing, talk to them without showing attitude (to some people it may be their normal tone of voice). But honestly, if you know that certain actions will irritate or agitate your CF, you just simply wouldn’t do it! Especially if your CF has told you repeatedly before that this particular action will seriously piss him/her off.

Some people out there are just generally more straightforward than others. Is that a good thing? Who is to say that it is a positive or negative trait? Sure one might argue that straightforwardness is a good characteristic to have as one will voice out their unhappiness on the spot so that the other party will know. But on the other side, where is the person’s EQ? Does he/she lack EQ to know that certain situations/problems you have with the other party cannot and some even should not be voiced out on the spot?

Then here comes the problem of blowing up at your CF. Being close friends you wouldn’t pick on every little thing that your CF does to irritate you now would you? OF course you wouldn’t! You would tend to close one eye and wave it off as he/she is in your premier friendship club with multiple fringe benefits. But there reaches a time where your CF does all the littles things, which you have told them before not to do, constantly to irritate you. Then what do you do then? Talk to them again like you did the previous time and then they’ll acknowledge but not do anything and the whole cycle repeats itself once more? Or do you set the standard straight now and let them know that you’re really pissed (some people would call this blowing up, which is true to a certain extent)?

Things that you would need morphine to calm me down for:

1). Not saying a "goodbye" or "bye" or "cya" or "ciao" or "ta" or "later" when you end a conversation on the phone and you simply just hang up. To me it’s outright rude, it doesn’t show the other respect as though the reciever owes you a living and has to do your bidding w/o any form of formalities. It also reflects badly on your upbringing, showing that your parents did not impart to you simple communication manners. This definitely tops the list for me.

2). Little irritating actions such as friendly punching, teasing, pinching(nipple or non-nipple), smack-on-the-backs which are done over-exccessively. Sure, it’s fun for a short while to irritate your friend, but doing it too many times gets pretty irritating like those houseflies that hover around your food when you’re eating and you can’t do anything about them cos you don’t wanna smack them and risk smacking your food too. So, you better stop it when i give you the "stop-it-before-i-get-the-pliers-from-the-garage-and-twist-off-your-fingers-and-nipplets" look. Ask bryan what i did to him when he crossed the limit with his pinching in class, that obviously got the both of us (mainly me) into trouble for.

3). Saying a simple greeting when you meet your friend. Now is that really that difficult? To me it’s a simple basic form of courtesy. You greet a person when you meet them. It’s that simple, really.

Quote of the day: "Don’t take your friends for granted. Piss him/her off and you’ll risk losing more than just a friend."

’nuff for now. I’m hungry. Going to find food.

Since someone, whose name i shall not mention, is fussing that i do not update my blog. Here’s an update.

I have found a new nickname.. (ok i know this is extremely irrelevant, but who cares? it’s my blog!) And my new nick shall be PANOPLY.. and no.. it’s not a pirated version of monopoly.. and no again if you’re thinking that it’s got something to do with something perverted or dirty or anything against the concious unpolluted mind of mine.

Oh here are some photos of the riverfest we went to recently.. we were late but nonetheless.. it was a spectacular view no doubt. We couldn’t have made it without godfrey giving us a lift to the city though. Thank goodness for his help!

It’s so beautiful that you’ll think it was photoshopped..(sophie & me)

notice how ugly my hair is in both pics? (eve & me)

We had 2 other people who didnt want to climb up the small little wall to get a better view and they are.. deborah and huimin! It wasn’t that scary.. honestly.. ask the other 2 who went up! Anyway, below are long overdue pictures from the start of semester at byron bay with a few buddies..Had other pics where we took off our tops left only one layer.. You wldn’t believe how freezing ass it was..

It’s a beautiful view..aparently most eastern-est point of somewhere..

Kings of the hill/rock edge/mound/ant hill

I WANT TO BECOME A BARTENDER!! When will cesars push me up to be a bartender?!?! There are certain feelings that are not good to harbour when you’re overseas..